FC: Guestbook | Parents Just | Don't Understand
1: By: Niveen, Rabab, Zaina, & Haneenn
2: Dear Diary, Today I am planning to run away. And it's all because my parents just don't understand me. They continuously upset me and i just can't stand it anymore. They always want me to be the perfect child that they apparently were, and they compare me to others all the time. Their thinking is way too old fashioned, and they don't understand that times have changed, and that it's not 1967. They never let me do anything! .-A kid .............................
4: Why are they acting this way, I worked hard to raise them well, faced many years of hardships, and challenges. But they just don't understand that I'm trying to do what is best for them. They continue to disappoint me in many ways. Attitude. It's a BiG problem these days. I just don't know what ...................to do, but I know that ...............we have to.make our .....bonds stronger. ~A MOM
6: The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said "Goodness towards one's parents is the greatest obligatory act." | Your Parents
7: This hadith, explains that obeying our parents should be among our first priorities in life. Disobeying them would be among the gravest sins one can commit. The Prophet (saw) also said in a hadith that one of the signs of the Day of Judgment is that mothers will give birth to their masters.
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9: Parents Know what's Best For You | 1.) Sometimes we get angry with you, but we just want you to understand what is right and wrong. 2.) It's not that we don't trust you, it's just that we want to look out for you. 3.) We assign you certain tasks to help you accomplish a sense of responsibility. | Parents
10: Hearing isn't the same thing as Listening | 1.) You always say you are listening when you're not. 2.) You don't ever try to understand me. 3.) It always seems as if I do all the work around the house. | Kids
11: Have | With your Parents
12: But one who says to his Parents uff to you do you promise me that I will be brought forth when generations before me have already passed on into oblivion. While they call to Allah for help and to their son, woe to you! Believe! indeed the promise of Allah is true, but he says this is not but legends of the former people. | With your parents
13: Practical Solutions | 1.) If you have a disagreement try to understand their side or perspective. 2.) Make Dua for each other. 3.) Have good communication. 4.) Always let your parents truthfully know where you are and with whom; to build trust. 5.)Be involved in your child's life, but also give them some space.
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