FC: Mrs. Chaplin
1: Some advice and best wishes for Mrs. Katherine A. Chaplin from friends and family . . .
3: Be honest and truthful. Give the marriage one hundred percent, it works both ways. If you have problems, sit down with no interruptions and work it out. It can't be my way or your way. You can reach a medium ground. Finally, hold onto the golden rule. Do unto him as you would have him do unto you. Meme
4: It may seem that you have lots of time, but life is short and the days pass so quickly. Make the most of each day and do sweet things for each other; remember the little things. Remember what you loved about each other in the beginning. I read the following quote and it touched me, I hope it does you. "May you live a thousand years and I a thousand less one day so that I may never know this world without yo." You are a wonderful giving woman and I wish you happiness always. Mom
5: Remember that in the South "he needed killing" is a valid defense - especially if he's snoring hard enough to suck the plaster off the ceiling.
6: Katherine:, Let me start by saying congratulations on your wedding day. I know without a doubt you are going to be a beautiful bride! As you and Cliff start your new life together always remember that you were Best Friends before you were husband and wife. Friendship is the one thing that will keep you together during the good and hard times. A friend is that someone that loves you. Secrets and dreams will be shared along with pain and hurt. On each anniversary you share I hope that you will be able to look back and say I've had a good time! The single most important thing that has gotten Jeff and me through the years is always knowing our strong and weak points. You will not be disappointed if you never ask more from Cliff that you know he able to go continue because it's too hard to stop once you've started! Be kind to each other! Don't ever say anything in angry that you will want to take back because once the words are spoken then pain is there and no matter what you can't take it back. When I see the two of you all I can see is love on your faces! I am truly blessed that I will be able to watch that love grow year after year!!! Love you best!!! Aunt Dama
7: Inside of your grown-up man is a little boy wanting to know that he measures up in your eyes. Respect him always, even if he doesn't "deserve" it in that moment. (we can all make mistakes) Be his best cheerleader...forever!
8: Advice: You have to be very specific. | Princess, My advice for a long happy marriage is to laugh, laugh, laugh! Enjoy every moment, choose your battles wisely. I wish you many fat, blue eyed babies :) Love, Chris, Linda, Clayton and Cody
9: No good deed goes unpunished. | Katherine, you are beginning a new chapter in your life and the best advice I can give you is the following. YOU ARE AS YOU BEGIN.... (the secondary advice is ...If Life Gives You Lemons, Add Vodka!!)
10: Dear Katherine - As someone who was privileged to be very happily married for 30 years, here is my advice: 1.Pick the right partner. (Looks like you have done that already!) 2. Avoid arguments and confrontations; it is just not worth it. Compromise when you can, and when you cannot, take turns "giving in." 3. Last but most important - Keep your husband satisfied in the bedroom and in the dining room - and he will be devoted to you for life. With my very best wishes for a lifetime of happiness, Donna | Never stop dating each other. | Don't ever let him nibble your ear! Sans teeth. Love you, Maria
11: Seriously . . .He picked you, chose you, loves you ! So remember to always kiss each other good night. T hen wake up each morning next to Cliff with a smile because you get to continue writing your love story . . . | Katherine: You had to kiss a lot of toads before you found your handsome prince. May the rest of your and Cliff's days be filled with love and happy ever afters. With all the love in my heart, Richard